Journeys With Jani

I believe in the Second Amendment. I believe in my right to protect myself, my family, my home, and yes—my little Basset hounds if it ever came to that. I was raised around guns. I’ve shot ‘em. I’ve cleaned ‘em. I’ve respected ‘em. So, let’s get one thing straight right out the gate: this is not an anti-gun blog.

But Lord have mercy—something’s gotta give.

The number of school shootings in this country? It’s terrifying. And what’s even scarier is how numb we’re all becoming to it. Another headline, another lockdown, another “thoughts and prayers” post before we just… move on. But these are children. Babies. Classrooms should be loud with pencil tapping and bad recorder solos—not bullets.

Now, I’m no policy maker. I don’t pretend to have the answers. But I know this much: saying “if someone wants a gun bad enough, they’ll find a way” doesn’t mean we stop trying to make it harder. That’s like saying, “people are going to drive drunk anyway, so let’s not bother with the DUI laws.” We’ve got to use some dang common sense.

Here’s where I land:

Yes, I want to keep my guns. No, I don’t want unstable people to have easy access to theirs.

Seems like there ought to be a middle ground, right?

Background checks? Sure.

Safe storage laws? Absolutely.

Red flag laws so a clearly unstable person can’t just walk into a store and grab an AR-15 because they had a bad breakup and a grudge? Yep.

Mandatory waiting periods so someone has time to cool off or reconsider? That feels reasonable.

I’m not trying to take anyone’s freedom. I’m trying to protect kids and keep schools from turning into war zones. There’s not a teacher in this country who signed up for combat duty. And there’s not a momma I know who should have to explain to their child how to barricade a classroom door with a desk.

And while we’re at it—can we also talk about the mental health crisis? Because that’s part of it too. We’ve got to stop brushing off warning signs because “he was always a little quiet” or “she just needed attention.” We need counselors, not just cops. We need adults to stop being scared to speak up when something feels off.

Listen, I don’t believe the government is coming for our guns. And if they are? They’re gonna have to go through my overly organized ammo box first. But I do believe we can support the right to bear arms and also support laws that make it a privilege earned through responsibility—not just something handed out like Halloween candy.

Protect our rights.

Protect our kids.

Both can be true.

Let’s stop acting like it’s one or the other.

Let’s be the generation that finally says: “Enough.”

Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go double-check that my safe is locked, my coffee is hot, and my Basset hounds haven’t dragged a sock into the yard again.

From the heart and the holler,

XOXO, Jani